Respecting your cat goes beyond just petting and feeding them. Cats can be very selecting and sensitive beings, so having insights into how to really respect your cat can help you build the very best relationship with them.
Here are some tips that will help you show your cat the respect they deserve.
Petting Your Cat
Have you ever been petting your cat and suddenly their mood changes? Maybe they try to move your hand with their head, their pawn or they even lightly put their teeth on you. Sometimes with cats, less touch is more, while others will want to be help and petting all the time. It is thought thar this could have to do with how they were socialized with humans when they were kittens.
A majority of cats prefer to be petted around the head, under the chin, at the neck and base of the tail. Watch their body language to see if they are enjoying the physical attention. It their eyes are squinted, their tail is rigid or swaying, and they are purring, those are all signs that your cat is happy. However, if they are shifting, trying to move their head away from you, licking their nose, or biting at your hand, this is an indication that they are not enjoying being petted at this time and you should respect that by stopping.
Picking Up & Holding Your Cat
There is a proper way to pick up your cat, so they feel secure and are then less likely to be afraid. It is important to remember though that not all cats like to be picked up or held.
Provided you cat seems relaxed and is willing to be picked up, start by rubbing them around their face. Then place one hand and part of your forearm under your cat’s chest and the other hand beneath their back legs. Then lift and immediately bring them close to your body. The more that your cat’s body is against you, the more comfortable they will likely feel.
Grooming
Regular brushing of your cat is a significant part of being a good cat parent. It not only keeps their coats healthy, but also reduces loose hairs which can cause bad hairballs.
Start by picking the right brush for your cat’s hair length. Make sure your cat is comfortable and relaxed and begin with gently strokes of the brush. It is good to start brushing them on the areas of the body where they like to be pet. As your cat becomes used to being brushed, you can them move to areas that are more sensitive like the back and belly. Watch for signs that your cat is done and respect that by stopping and coming back to the grooming later. Once you have completed the grooming session, praise them by giving them a treat.
Keeping Your Cat Entertained
While cats may not require as much attention as dogs, they cannot be ignored. There are great toys available to keep your cat entertained while you are not with them. Robotic-type toys that move on their own and treat dispensing toys are great for this. When you are playing with your cat though, try toys that are on poles that elicit jumping and pouncing instincts.
Overall, the most important part of respecting your cat is understanding what feedback they are giving you based on your interactions with them. Listening to them through their non-verbal communication and altering your actions will continue to build your bond with them.
